- 今天是之前文章的下，讲师是大乐乐，她讲的也很细致很好。她讲了一位同学每次都会总结文章梗概，我觉得这是好的，需要学习。以后我笔记最末也会有文章的梗概和收获。以及每次要背诵的写在最前面。
- 講的好在：每段都有總結。讲完一段就总结要背的单词和句子，不是生词，是要背诵的。所以难度较低，数量少，更实用。
金子们：
synergy ['sɪnədʒɪ] n. 协作
ego ['iːgəʊ;] n.自我：Ego is the Enemy
seek to do sth 力图做某事
shatter ['ʃætə] vt. 打碎
proactive [prəʊ'æktɪv] 积极主动的
dependence [dɪ'pend(ə)ns] n.依赖
independence [ɪndɪ'pend(ə)ns] n. 独立
interdependence[,ɪntədɪ'pendəns] n. 互相依赖
synergize ['sɪnədʒaɪz] vt. 协作
inferior [ɪn'fɪərɪə] adj. 差的；次一级的——superior
mutually [ˈmjuːtʃuəli] adv. 相互地
beneficial [benɪ'fɪʃ(ə)l] adj. 有益的
thrive [θraɪv] vi. 繁荣；兴旺
collaborator [kə'læbəreɪtə] n 合作者
be prone to 有…的倾向+名词：ego
self-absorption ['selfəb'sɔ:pʃən] n. 聚精会神；专心致志
bypass ['baɪpɑːs] vt.绕开
by nature 本质而言
vision ['vɪʒ(ə)n] n.远见
boldness ['bəuldnis] n. 大胆
reword [riː'wɜːd] vt.复述
accomplish [ə'kʌmplɪʃ; ə'kɒm-] vt.完成；实现
ponder ['pɒndə] vt.仔细思考；衡量
shed [ʃed] vt.使...脱落
renegotiate [riːnɪ'gəʊʃɪeɪt] vt.重新谈判；重新协商
delegate [ˈdɛlɪˌɡeɪt(for v.,) ˈdɛlɪˌɡeɪt] vt.委派...为代表
networth 净值
exchange favors 互相帮助
championship ['tʃæmpɪənʃɪp] n.冠军
Darwinian [dɑ:'winiən] adj.达尔文主义者的
social loafing 社会惰化[ləʊf]
intensive growth 集中成长
efficiency [ɪ'fɪʃ(ə)nsɪ] n. 效率
unity [ˈjuːnəti] n.团结
bulls-eye ['bulzai] n. 靶心
precision [prɪ'sɪʒ(ə)n] n.精度
conservation [kɒnsə'veɪʃ(ə)n] n.保护；保存
recovery [rɪ'kʌv(ə)rɪ] n.恢复
proximity [prɒk'sɪmɪtɪ] n.接近
- Seek first to understand,then to be understood 。
- The 'normal' systems you have in place, the social rules you've forced upon yourself, the standard frameworks - they don't work when asking a question like this. You are forced to shed（使…脱落） artificial constraints,to realize that you had the ability to renegotiate your reality all along."
你固有的所谓正常体系，你遵循的社会规则，你的标准，当你问出上述问题时，它们就都不起作用了。你得像动物蜕皮一样蜕去那些人为的限制，你要意识到自己一直都有能力改变自己的生活。 - less, but better.
- 越...越...
The sooner, the better. 越快越好。
The more, the merrier. 越多越好merry
开讲啦
这篇文章讲的时候，成功人士的2个心理转变。上一次讲了第一个：If it is to be,it is up to you.就是说生活的一切都是你选择的结果。不要抱怨，要对自己的一切负责。今天讲的是第二个：Synergy协作。
It's the profound（深远的） result when two or more respectful human beings determine[dɪ'tɜːmɪn] to go beyond their preconceived ideas to meet a great challenge." - Stephen R. Covey
开篇第一句就奉上我大科维的话，不听不行啊。
When you're a student, you actively seek to have your paradigm shattered（打碎）. You want to be wrong and you want feedback. You care more about learning than what other people think about you.
第一段就告诉我们，要拥有学生精神，即：1.积极地打破自己思维范式。2.喜欢试错和反馈。3.更在意是否学到东西而非别人的看法。
The "lone ranger" mentality is played-out and overrated. You may be able to rock life by yourself. But you could rock life far more with the help of the right people. Naturally, this is the very ascent Stephen R. Covey explains in The 7 Habits of Highly Effective People The first several habits are to help you experience the first mental shift, or what Covey calls the "Private Victory."
独行侠精神是不对滴。一个人走得快，但一群人走得远。The 7 Habits of Hightly Effective People就是《高效能人士的七个习惯》啦。科维把第一个思想转变称为：个人的胜利。
The habits Covey outlines to experience this private victory are:
- Be proactive 积极进取
- Begin with the end in mind 目标明确
- Put first things first 分清轻重缓急
Once you master these habits, you will go from dependence（依赖） on others to a high state of independence（独立） - the first mental shift. However, three additional habits of Covey's book are intended to take you beyond independence to a state of interdependence（互相依赖）, where you experience synergistic（协作性的） relationships in all areas of your life. What I'm calling the second mental shift Covey calls "Public Victory."
The habits Covey outlines to experience this public victory are: - Think win-win 双赢思考
- Seek first to understand… then to be understood 先理解他人，再求被他人理解
- Synergize 协作
这就是科维的前6个习惯，积极进取就不说了，begin with the end in mind.这很重要。做事情，要以最终目标作为衡量。比如这辈子的梦想或者年目标等等，不然就会陷入混乱无轻重和轻易堕落。比如如果时刻清晰的记着自己的目标是有一颗清醒的大脑，那在选择放纵情绪、食欲的时候就会考虑，而不是轻易被本能打败。
Rather than seeking to understand, they only seek to be understood. Rather than synergizing, they only do things "their way," seeing others as inferior.Men more often want the glory while women simply want to contribute and grow.
这段就讲有些人就不会理解他人，认为别人都是笨蛋。女性在这点就会比男性好。
Becoming "successful" requires taking personal responsibility for your life and choices. By nature（本质而言）, it's beyond average, since, to be average is to not take responsibility.
If you have a 10-year plan of how to get [somewhere], you should ask: Why can't I do this in 6 months?
I do expect that the question will productivity break your mind, like a butterfly shattering a chrysalis（蝶蛹） to emerge with new capabilities. The 'normal' systems you have in place, the social rules you've forced upon yourself, the standard frameworks - they don't work when asking a question like this. You are forced to shed（使…脱落） artificial constraints, like shedding a skin, to realize that you had the ability to renegotiate your reality all along."
These types of questions lead to creative breakthroughs and different avenues of thought. They also organically facilitate a very different strategic approach.
“成功”就是对自己的选择和人生负全责。本质而言，就是变得不普通，因为普通人就睡被自己的人生不负责。（对！就是这个原因，为什么我要去大城市去辛苦就是要对自己负责）
作者在这里讲了一个奇怪的问题：如何把你的的十年目标在6个月完成？当然，这是说要经常问自己这样的问题，会打破常见的思维框架，你固有的所谓正常体系，你遵循的社会规则，你的标准，当你问出上述问题时，它们就都不起作用了。你得像动物蜕皮一样蜕去那些人为的限制，你要意识到自己一直都有能力改变自己的生活。
"Delegate everything but genius."* - *Dan Sullivan
When you begin thinking 10x, you realize you can't do it all on your own. You need to be far more focused. Thus, it becomes essential to build a team around you immediately. Your network is your networth（净值）.The sooner you build a team around you, the faster, wider, and deeper will be your results.It could mean that you exchange favors（互相帮助）
- 当你做很多时委派任务给他们。
- 你需要focused，flow.要高质量的努力，而非稀水水一片。浪费很多时间，没有成果，低效率，这是我要改变的。
- Your network is your networth.你的人脉就是你的净值。是互相帮助的。
If you want to become a better person, date or marry someone "up."
情感建议：如果想变成better person,必须找一个也是进取型的。
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"Working with a 10x goal and game-plan requires that your brain is relaxed, rested, and rejuvenated."
"less, but better." Where the first shift is often about quantity of work, the second shift is all about quality.
- 必须要休息好。
- 要数量更要质量的努力。Less but better.
Never stop being a student.
Never stop learning.
Shatter whatever paradigm you have and get a new one.
When you change the way you see things, the things you see change.
最后一段，全文总结。
总结一下：这文章讲了2个思维转变。1.对自己负责，这是个人的成功。2.授权delegate,协作synergy，这是社会成功。
要做到这2个思维的转变，需要：积极进取。目标导向。分清轻重。双赢思维。理解他人。协作。保持学生精神（永远学习，永远试错，永远改变）。高质量努力。以及最后，休息好。
