“You may not be her first, her last, or her only. She loved before she may love again. But if she loves you now, what else matters? She's not perfect—you aren't either, and the two of you may never be perfect together but if she can make you laugh, cause you to think twice, and admit to being human and making mistakes, hold onto her and give her the most you can. She may not be thinking about you every second of the day, but she will give you a part of her that she knows you can break—her heart. So don't hurt her, don't change her, don't analyze and don't expect more than she can give. Smile when she makes you happy, let her know when she makes you mad, and miss her when she's not there.”
你也许不是她的初恋，也许不会成为她的归宿、她的唯一。她爱过别人，也可能会有别的爱人。但她现在爱着你，其他的一切又算什么呢？她是个有缺点的女孩，而你也并不完美。你们俩在一起也许永远不会是珠联璧合。但如果她能引你大笑，能激发你重新思考，能让你承认自己是会犯错的凡人。那么请抓紧她，不要放手，给她你所能给的所有。她也许不是每分每秒都在想你，但她把自己最脆弱的那部分给了你——她的心。所以，请别伤害她，改变她，揣摩她，别期望她给你能力之外的东西。当她让你快乐时，请向她微笑；当她让你抓狂时，请让她知晓；当她不在你的身旁时，请深深地思念她。
