1）Given the choice of anyone in the world, whom would you want as a dinner guest?
1）如果世界上任何人可供选择，你想邀请谁共进晚餐？
2）Would you like to be famous? In what way?
2）你想出名吗？用什么方式？
3）Before making a telephone call, do you ever rehearse what you are going to say? Why?
3）打电话之前，你会不会排练你要说什么？为什么？
4）What would constitute a “perfect” day for you?
4）对你来说什么会构成“完美”的一天？
5）When did you last sing to yourself? To someone else?
5）你最后一次对自己唱歌是什么时候？对别人唱歌呢？
6、If you were able to live to the age of 90 and retain either the mind or body of a 30-year-old for the last 60 years of your life, which would you want?
6）如果你能活到90岁，并在你生命的最后60年保持30岁的心灵或身体，你想要哪一个？
7）Do you have a secret hunch about how you will die?
7）对于你会怎么死你有没有秘密的预感？
8）Name three things you and your partner appear to have in common.
8）举出你和你的伴侣似乎有共同点的三件事。
9）For what in your life do you feel most grateful?
9）对于你生活中你最感恩的是什么？
10）If you could change anything about the way you were raised, what would it be?
10）如果你能改变你被养大的方式，你希望改变什么？
11）Take four minutes and tell your partner your life story in as much detail as possible.
11）花四分钟，尽可能详细地告诉你的伴侣你一生的故事。
12）If you could wake up tomorrow having gained any one quality or ability, what would it be?
12）如果你明天一觉醒来能够拥有任何一种品质或能力，你希望是什么？
Set II
13）If a crystal ball could tell you the truth about yourself, your life, the future or anything else, what would you want to know?
13）如果一个水晶球可以告诉你关于你自己、你的生活、未来或任何其他事实的真相，你想知道什么？
14）Is there something that you’ve dreamed of doing for a long time? Why haven’t you done it?
14）你有长久以来梦想去做的事情吗？你为什么没有做？
15）What is the greatest accomplishment of your life?
15）你生命中最伟大的成就是什么？
16）What do you value most in a friendship?
16）你在友谊中最重视什么？
17）What is your most treasured memory?
17）你最珍贵的记忆是什么？
18）What is your most terrible memory?
18）你最可怕的记忆是什么？
19）If you knew that in one year you would die suddenly, would you change anything about the way you are now living? Why?
19）如果你知道在一年内你会突然死亡，你会改变你现在生活的方式吗？为什么？
20）What does friendship mean to you?
20）友谊对你意味着什么？
21）What roles do love and affection play in your life?
21）爱和情感在你的生活中扮演什么角色？
22）Alternate sharing something you consider a positive characteristic of your partner. Share a total of five items.
22）交替分享你认为伴侣身上具备的积极特征。分享五个。
23）How close and warm is your family? Do you feel your childhood was happier than most other people’s?
23）你的家庭有多亲密和温暖？你觉得你的童年比大多数人更快乐吗？
24）How do you feel about your relationship with your mother?
24）你觉得你和妈妈的关系如何？
Set III
25）Make three true “we” statements each. For instance, “We are both in this room feeling … ”
25）每人准确地用“我们”造三句话。例如，“我们都在这个房间感觉...”
26）Complete this sentence: “I wish I had someone with whom I could share … ”
26）完成这句话：“我希望我有人和我分享...”
27）If you were going to become a close friend with your partner, please share what would be important for him or her to know.
27）如果你要和你的伴侣成为亲密的朋友，请分享他或她需要知道的重要的事情。
28）Tell your partner what you like about them; be very honest this time, saying things that you might not say to someone you’ve just met.
28）告诉你的伴侣你喜欢他们什么；这一次非常诚实，说你可能不会对你刚遇到的人说的话。
29）Share with your partner an embarrassing moment in your life.
29）与你的伴侣分享你生活中的一个尴尬时刻。
30）When did you last cry in front of another person? By yourself?
30）你最近一次什么时候在另一个人面前哭泣？一个人哭是什么时候？
31）Tell your partner something that you like about them already.
31）告诉你的伴侣一些你已经喜欢他们的地方。
32）What, if anything, is too serious to be joked about?
32）什么事是太严重而不能开玩笑的事（如果有的话）？
33）If you were to die this evening with no opportunity to communicate with anyone, what would you most regret not having told someone? Why haven’t you told them yet?
33）如果你今天晚上没有机会与任何人交流就要死了，你最后悔没有告诉某人什么？你为什么没有告诉他们？
34）Your house, containing everything you own, catches fire. After saving your loved ones and pets, you have time to safely make a final dash to save any one item. What would it be? Why?
34）你的房子，包含你拥有的一切，着火了。保护好你的亲人和宠物后，你有时间冲回去安全地救出最后一样东西。它会是什么？为什么？
35）Of all the people in your family, whose death would you find most disturbing? Why?
35）在你家所有人中，谁的死亡会让你最感到不安？为什么？
36）Share a personal problem and ask your partner’s advice on how he or she might handle it. Also, ask your partner to reflect back to you how you seem to be feeling about the problem you have chosen.
36）分享一个私人的问题，并询问您的伴侣会如何处理它。另外，请你的伴侣向你反映你对你所选择的问题看起来有何感觉。
