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Neal Wu, 6.2k upvotes：
Neal Wu, searching for truth
In contrast to Robert Wagner's answer:
- **Make friends as opposed to networking. **Your friends will go a lot further than the professional contacts you make, especially since only one of the two groups is invested in your personal happiness.
- Become an expert by learning as much as you can and deeply seeking out the things you are curious about. Find the things you enjoy and practice the skills you want to develop. If you can achieve expertise then it will be easy to obtain an audience.
- Volunteer to help out those less fortunate than you. In the process you will gain a ton of new perspective and will better understand other people's real problems. In a society that always looks upward, they can be easy to forget.
- Become as independent as possible. If you work at a big company, constantly make small steps to reduce your dependence on your job. Write a book, build an app, or start a small business on the side. Release your inner entrepreneur. Even if you fail, you'll build skills.
- Don't spend too much time worrying about your personal brand. Accomplish things, and the recognition will follow.
- **Stop treating life as a competition and do things for their own sake. **Genuine interest should be what drives you to improve yourself, rather than simply a desire to beat others. Find a community of people who are interested in the same things as you, and drive each other to be the best you can be.