After a while you learn the subtle difference between holding a hand and chaining a soul
过了一会儿，你学会了牵着一只手和锁住一个灵魂之间微妙的区别
And you learn that love doesn't mean leaning
你会明白爱并不意味着倾斜
And company doesn't mean security
而陪伴并不意味着安全
And you begin to learn that kisses aren't contracts
你开始明白亲吻不是契约
And presents aren't promises
礼物不是承诺
And you begin to accept your defeats
你开始接受你的失败
With your head up and eyes open
抬起头，睁着眼睛
With the grace of a woman, not the grief of a child
展现女人的优雅，而不是孩子的悲伤
And you learn to build all roads on today because tomorrow's ground Is too uncertain for plans
你明白，应该在今天，将你所有的道路铺建，因为明天的地面是那么起伏不定，难以设计
And futures have a way of falling down in mid flight
而未来常常突然出现在眼前
After a while you learn that even sunshine burns if you get too much
不久你就会明白，即使是阳光如果拥有太多，也会灼伤
So plant your own garden and decorate your own soul
所以种植你自己的花园，装饰你自己的灵魂吧
Instead of waiting for someone to bring you flowers
而不是等待别人给你送花
And you learn that you really can endure
你会发现你真的可以忍受
That you really are strong
你真的很坚强
And you really do have worth
你的确有自己的价值
And you learn and learn
你不断明白更多
With every good bye you learn, you relieve
每一次分手你都有新的感悟，新的释然
